Posted on 23rd May, 2021
Relationships can bring a lot of joy into our lives but sometimes they can also be our hardest struggle. In my work as a relationship psychic people often come to me looking for guidance in attracting the relationships they desire. Whether they're looking to improve their love, family, or social life, it doesn't matter, the struggles are pretty much the same and the root reason for constantly being out of reach of their ideal relationship may be the same.
Many people struggle to stay in the wrong relationships and have a hard time finding the right relationships and they fail to understand why that is. Some may even be accustomed to the law of attraction and try various techniques but still fall short.
Oftentimes, the vital aspect of self-love is overlooked when trying to find the cause of relationship problems. But, more times than not, lack of self-love is, in fact, the main reason people keep attracting the wrong people and push away the love they actually crave for. If you cannot unconditionally love yourself you will definitely not be able to give that kind of love to somebody else.
If this is the case for you, don't worry, I am here to help you discover what is holding you back from showing yourself the love you deserve and how to fully accept yourself and deepen your self-love to attract your dream relationships.
A lack of self-love can be caused by a variety of reasons, such as:
Maybe there is something about your body you wish was different. Maybe you have a bad habit you find unattractive. Whatever it is, it is holding you back from being able to fully love yourself and let your divine light shine through to others. It is important to remember that everything happens for a reason and the Holy Spirit has created us exactly how we were supposed to be, giving us just the right struggles to help us become the best version of ourselves.
Our relationship with our parents plays a great role in our early development and the habits we develop early on in life are the hardest to change as we grow older. Having overly critical parents can make you grow up with the constant impression that you are not good enough which can lead to lacking self-love as an adult.
Putting too high of a standard for yourself puts a lot of unnecessary pressure on yourself and it means that you will almost never reach your standard which can leave you feeling disappointed in yourself and lower your self-love.
The journey towards self-love is one of the most exciting journeys you will go through in life. You can discover things you didn't know about yourself and it will improve every aspect of your life. Here are a few tips to help you on this wonderful journey:
Affirmations are an extremely powerful tool that can significantly help you on your path towards self-love. Try saying the following affirmations when you wake up and before going to bed and see how they affect your energy:
Meditation is a great way to release any negative thoughts and feelings and ground yourself in the present moment and it can help you let go of past events that are holding you back from fully loving yourself.
Exercising is wonderful for boosting your mood and maintaining a healthy, strong, beautiful body. This can also increase your self-esteem thus your self-love as well.
The power of gratitude is amazing. When you feel grateful for what you currently have and how you are, the universe will only provide you with even more reasons to be grateful for. So next time you feel a negative thought pattern arising in your mind, try to think of a few things you are grateful for and see how your energy immediately shifts.
Depending on your current level of self-love and your current lifestyle it can be easier or harder for you to overcome your struggles and reach the desired unconditional self-love but I am telling you it is surely worth it. When you start to deepen your self-love you will shortly notice the positive changes in your life and your relationships with others and you will be on your way to attracting your most desired relationships.